Love is all around us. Every day we overlook or take for granted the love people have for us. Sometimes love is taken so much for granted that we feel unloved. Everyone has their own way of showing love and being affectionate. Some people are better showing their emotions and affection towards someone. Not everyone is great at showing emotions or affection. Being not everyone is great at showing their emotions or affection this leads some to believe that this person doesn’t love them. Do you think about the people you love and the people who love you?
Love is all around us!
There are so many people in this world that care and love you. You may think there are very small amount of people who do but its more than you would imagine. Now these people do not all love you on a sexual level or want to be with you level. They all love you in a sense that they care about you like a friendship type of love. So, now think of all the people that are in your life and care about you; that’s a lot of love there! Do you love or care about everyone in your life?
Taking people for granted.
Sometimes when life gets busy, we tend to hurt the ones we love most or the ones who love us the most. We tend to take things for granted or we overlook what is in front of us. We must always make it a point and be thankful for what we have and tell the ones who love us the most that we care and love them too. Like the old saying goes we never know what we have until its gone! This is saying is true on so many levels. We tend to take a lot of people for granted. For example, good friends, spouses or significant others, good coworkers, etc. There are so many times where we would be lost if we didn’t have the people in our life today. Do you ever take people for granted or overlook them?
Showing affection or emotions.
This is a huge issue when it comes to most boys. Most boys do not like showing their feelings, emotions or being affectionate. Most girls are overly emotional, affectionate and talk about their feelings. This can sometimes cause a huge clash or issues between girls and boys. Sometimes there’s no way to get people to open or share how they feel. As much as we wish we could sometimes there’s no way to change ourselves or someone into something they are not. Do share your feelings, emotions and are affectionate to someone?
How I love.
I am not a person to be sharing or open with their feelings or emotions. I am probably bad at showing affection too. When people show me their emotions (especially crying) I never know what to say or do. I do not know why I am like this but showing emotions, feelings, and being affectionate does not come easy for me. I wish I was more open, especially to the people who are really close to me. One thing I know is I can’t change who I am, and I cannot change someone else. I don’t mind being a good listener and I am often good at that but sometimes my response or advice is not so good. I have learned sometimes it’s better to just shut up and listen and do not give too much input.
How do you love and care for the people that are really close to you?
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